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Carl Vonderau's avatar

Nice piece. You are so right about fractured memories. I think most writers use the past as a springboard for their imaginations. I can't remember incidents--particularly the visual details--well enough to write a memoir. But I can make up things around the emotional heart of what I remember.

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Tracey S. Phillips's avatar

Thanks Carl! Isn't that the truth?

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Valerie Biel's avatar

So interesting -- the process of trying to pull at the threads of memory and the emotions involved. I have a lot of these little snippets from childhood that are elusive, but quite a few memories that are very vivid. The conversation is always interesting ... and when others say they don't remember vast swaths of their childhoods, I was always surprised by that. Clearly, you remember a lot and it shows ... I loved the evocative way you brought the 1970s alive for me again in "Forewarned."

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Tracey S. Phillips's avatar

Thanks Val! Oh, there vast swaths I don't remember too. Still, the emotions remain.

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Saralyn Richard's avatar

I'm so moved by these photos of a younger, more pensive Tracey. You have such a dazzling smile today!

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Tracey S. Phillips's avatar

Thanks Saralyn! I haven't seen many photos of me smiling at that age. Not even my school pictures! 😟

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Sherrill Joseph's avatar

Photos pull memories to the surface for me. I'm sorting 140 years of family photos to prepare to scan them. Sometimes, I want to pull those memories closer. Sometimes, I want to push them away. It's all so emotional. A record of life's comedies, tragedies, and the in-betweens. And fodder for stories! Thanks for sharing about yourself. I love the childhood photo of you! Can't wait to read Forewarned.

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Tracey S. Phillips's avatar

Thank you Sherrill! Don't they though? There are some I want to burn, some I cherish, and some photos I long to know more about. All are fodder for the writer brain.

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Laurie Buchanan's avatar

Tracey — This post evoked a gamut of emotions from me!

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Tracey S. Phillips's avatar

I hope you weren't terrified! 😱😄 Thanks for reading!

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